Crazyblackman wrote:Question since you guys seem pretty knowledgeable
What would you personal classify as your deal breaker with a significant other.. Like in the getting to know you phase.. Your dating and you find something out.. What is it that you just can't stand that makes you say this won't last?
There are 1440 minutes in the day. Take sleep, work, et al out of the total.
There are X number of minutes you have to give.
Out of the remaining minutes; if that person is your love and you are their love... how many minutes did you give and how many minutes were you given?
Take that number and turn it into a percentage of the total day.
Are you okay only being important that percentage of the day? No? Walk away. You're better than that.
Directly to your question... why would you put up with one iota of bullshit during the 'dating phase'?!? That is why it is called dating. Nothing that is bothering you meow is going to go away.
As I said before... as a relationship intensifies so do the little things. If there is something awry meow it'll only get worse later.